Written By Sheryl Shields
Once upon a time, I had this insatiable desire to know what made people happe. Not the smiley face happy but the real happiness that comes from being at peace within yourself. So I began reading autobiographies and self-help books, searching for some elusive clue on what I needed to do to love every area of my life. It’s like when you meet someone and immediately feel at ease. They radiate love and a calm sense of knowing who they are and the work they were born to do.
What are you known for?
I met such a person many years ago. Aunt Ruthy is my ex-husband’s aunt. We met on a sweltering summer day at a music festival in downtown Chicago. From the first hug, I knew she was an amazing woman, and all these years later, that still rings true. She left her job as a bank teller to become a nurse when she was in her forties. Her calm and compassionate nature made her perfect for this work. She loved her patients, and they loved her. She retired 20 years ago and now has Alzheimer’s. Although she doesn’t recognize who I am, she makes me incredibly happe. I’m grateful I get to be in her presence and am thankful she’s still with us.
Why me? Why now?
From Aunt Ruthy, I learned life is too short to let fear keep me from sharing an idea I had last year after George Floyd was murdered. As I processed my anxiety and grief, I felt a strong desire to help heal the world. Of course, I couldn’t personally coach everyone, but I realized I could teach people to coach. Then they could process their pain, share their stories, and coach people in their respective communities. So I began researching coaching schools, creating the curriculum, and having a website designed. Then, I cautiously told a few friends who cheered me on and offered help and encouragement. A few months later, I began teaching in the same coaching school I attended many years ago. It was yet another sign I was on the right track. I love when these kinds of synchronicities show up to validate my decision.
I know the power of coaching
Coaching saved my life and made an immense difference in my teaching career and personal life. It continues to help me face my fears and do the work I was born to do. I’ve helped hundreds of people clarify their goals, careers, and relationships, which has allowed them to live happe lives.
This is how life works
We heal our pain, share our stories, and help others do the same. And that’s just what I’m doing. You are the first to know I’m officially launching Get Happe Coaching Academy. Feel free to check out my new website here; tell me what you think and sign up for more information if you feel so moved.
I’m happe I get to do this work and would love to help you learn to coach, unlock your genius and create a life you love.
Sheryl